BULLYING
Hai
my sun flowers welcome back to my blog, how are you today, there? I’m
good here.
Oke for this time , I will write my
opinion about bullying, I won’t write too long anyway, relax hehehe. First we
have to know , what is bullying ? and what is the cause and effect of the
bullying itself? I will show you the definition of
bullying by the expert . Oke according
to the expert “I define bullying or
victimization in the following general way: A student is being bullied or
victimized when he or she is exposed, repeatedly and over time, to negative
actions on the part of one or more other students.” —Dan Olweus, Bullying at
School (Oxford, UK: Blackwell, 1993), p. 9. “
so based on the definition of the above
expert, it is true that the ordinary bullying occurred around school and it is common for both the
perpetrator and the victim to be students of the school. What do I think about
bullying ? I think bullying is abusive behavior hurting others with physical
violence for the purpose of harassing those who feel weak. It’s usually happen around school. Oke next, what
is the cause and effect of the bullying? The causes of bullying are either from
the bully himself or from the bully victim himself. The cause of bullying from
the bully himself like first the perpetrator is the victim of a bully in the
family circle. Then she rewards him by bullying others who are weaker than she
is. Second the envy of the perpetrator of the victim is that he doesn’t share
the same special traits as the individual. And the third , not frequently, the
perpetrator intentionally ACTS of bullying others just to get attention. And
what they get ? they will get attention, they are content, and and feeling
happy . The cause of bullying from the bully
victim himself such as first that physical appearance is considered different
or outdated, second when considered weak and unable to fight those around him,
and the third being less sociable and less social.
Some long-term and short-term effects of
bullying include ; fear, stress, anxiety to excessive depression by the victim
and then the use to commit suicide or self injure arises. Difficulty in sleep,
loss of appetite, mood unstable, and helplessness, then self-esteem. Feeling
lonely and isolated from their surroundings.
Some of the ways to prevent bullying can
be done ; trying to remain calm. just avoid it avoid if there is a chance you
might be in danger, and if the bully is difficult to deal with, try to get help from those around you and etc.
Happy and successful belongs to anyone ,
including you victims of bullying it is not easy to forget the bitter
experiences of the bullying practice. But how long do you want to remain silent
and fall short, fight with your strong will and determination to move
forward to please those who love you,
don’t lose heart. Prove you can do better than them.
And the last PLEASE STOP BULLYING. Oke That’s all my sunflowers, you can share my writing, or if you have question you can visit my
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